We are brainwashed into believing that we need Twitter/X in order to survive as SWers when really, X is a toxically addictive algorithm designed to break our brains and make us think we need it. What we need is to improve our branding and marketing, not waste more energy on social media platforms that only serve our egos with dopamine hits. Books like Stolen Focus help us to understand that Twitter isn't merely a distraction: It's addicted us and rewired our brains in wa

When we glance at a SWer's ads, website, and social media, they may seem suave, smooth and seductive while lithely posing, nips ablazing in that sheer, glamorously overpriced Honey Birdette lingerie set. Their hair is perfect. Their "look" is perfectly catered to the male gaze. Their social media is... mostly perfect. (Not talking about myself here.) Observers would have no idea, based on surface observation, that many SWers are neurodivergent and at a bare minimum, a little

Many of the SWers I know are unwittingly screwing themselves out of income by using anonymous VoIP "burner" text app phone numbers to communicate with admirers. Our admirers also use these services, like Burner, Hushed, Sideline and TextNow. Quite a few dudes are wondering why that lovely provider never texted them back. She did. My dudes simply didn't receive a text back because VoIP numbers don't necessarily have the quality and business incentives to work 100% of the time,