"Women who do SW over the age of 30 are sad. Pathetic. They should have made enough money to retire by now. Could never be me!" reads a SW X viral tweet. Ok, I just made that sentence up because I barely use X and didn't think to save the barrage of ageist tweets I've seen since I joined the platform in 2018/2019. (I forget when I joined, TBH.) A friend informed me that an online worker recently posted a viral tweet about this same, played out, ignorant topic that's merely a

Did you know that you're not good enough? I think the literal years you've spent learning how to work social media, studying marketing, writing blogs, posting on socials, filming videos, planning and executing photoshoots, and the years of work you've put into yourself/your persona to show up in a more effective and loving way simply aren't good enough . That's what this man was telling me when he sent me this innocuous looking email. Only an experienced provider would be abl

Why do certain providers discriminate regarding age and ethnicity? Why do some refuse to see men under the age of 30 or 25? The way I see and experience it is as follows: If he's old enough to join the Marines, he's old enough to pay me for my Time. This is probably a controversial statement, but I don't think compensated sex/spending time with folks is all that serious. Most of my time spent with admirers isn't sexual, BTW, it's emotional work. Sex has no inherent moral me