Own His Soul, Sis: Seduction Magic for S*x Workers
- 7 days ago
- 12 min read
It's your time. Step into your Power, Activate, Awaken and remember who you are: Someone who takes what's owed without apologies.
Anyone can see, very visibly, how the Craft (AKA that weird, witchy "stuff") has revolutionized my business and who I am. If I showed you older photos, you wouldn't believe I'm the same person. My writing, my aura, my appearance, my profits, and my outlook on life have all leveled up in a very obvious way. How was I able to accomplish these magical feats?
My friend was looking at my socials the other day and informed me that she had a rock hard lady boner for me.
"I don't know what it is, but you're looking hot these days. What's your secret?"
Brujería. Magic. Witchcraft. The Work. Activating as a Divine Goddamn Being of Light and Healing Through the Pain of Modern Existence.
Seduction magic is not about working specific targets/admirers via binding them to us, although I have bound my fav admirers to me in the past. (oops)
Seduction/attraction work is about walking with the energy/spirit of seduction and cutting away what no longer serves us in order to reveal our inner Divinity/God/Goddess. The most important idea to grasp regarding seduction work is that it is all about confidence AKA self love. There is no one spell, chant, mantra or whatever that's going to make me magically seductive overnight.
It took me years of pain, suffering, isolation, ego Death, public shaming, humiliation rituals, blood, sweat and tears to activate my Powers. Read on, if you're ready, and I'll show you how to ascend and remember who the fuck you are.
Kill the Ego
The first step involved in growing our seductive abilities involves staring our demons right in their bloodshot, thirsty little eyes.
The gift of desperation lead me to read part of Joe Dispenza's book Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself and I decided to follow his advice, writing down a list of my fears and meditated on them. Like everyone, I was afraid of rejection and failure. Instead of numbing myself out with distractions like work/addicting romantic relationships/food/weed/social media, I paused, dug in and sat with the pain via breathwork, meditation, writing, and silence in Nature.
Light a white candle, cast a circle in a hot bath with pink salt, add some cleansing plants (or oils) like tea tree and eucalyptus, and think about what it felt like when they rejected you. What did it feel like when your mother told you you weren't good enough? Relive the most painful experiences, the humiliation rituals, and simply cry.
Rinse and repeat.
Sit silently in Nature and experiment with different meditation techniques.
Feel the feeling/pain, sit with the discomfort, and it will pass through you. Many people don't have the ability to look inward and that's why they'll never fully Activate and Awaken. Most of us continue to distract and numb ourselves because, in a sense, that's easier than healing. We are all broken in certain ways and yet no one is there to show us how to put ourselves back together again.
Let's assume that we're already doing our healing shadow work and have been killing the parts of ourselves that have been blocking our blessings. What do we do next? How do we magically, magnetically attract kind, generous, and compatible admirers?
You Are a God, Babe
Fuck being a Goddess.
"I am God in the flesh, standing at attention. Anything I want I can command it to fruition. I don't even pray, I think about it and I get it." (Kevin Gates... yeah, yeah he's not perfect and I still enjoy his music because apparently all MILFs love Kevin Gates.)
The next step we take (in our glittery Pleasers) on the path to fully devouring admirers' souls is what I refer to as Inner Divinity Work but most of ya'll would call it self love magic. The phrase "self love magic" doesn't cut it for me because people really think they love themselves and believe they don't need to do any self love/healing work. Many of us have mental blocks in place and lack the self awareness to see that we all need to improve our relationships with ourselves.
Sigh. I don't know what to say. We live in a system that profits off us hating ourselves. Women are told from day 1 that their only purpose in life is to marry a man, serve a man, perform for the male gaze, stay eternally 25, have no fat on our bodies, have no cellulite, get boob jobs, and on... and on... and on... It takes constant work to rewire our nervous systems and step into who the Great Mother wants us to become.
Self love magic AKA Inner Divinity Work will provide us with the confidence to become the ultimate seductors. There are many ways to raise our inner God/Goddess and I do this (as a root worker/plant worker) by making my own Inner Divinity incense, Self Love Oil, jars, candles and more. Because I am a daughter of La Santa Muerte, I work with her pink aspect in order to cut down all obstacles to my inner Goddess activation.
(And girl, she's been fully activated.)
What works best for me is candle work (fire), blood magic, and root work (plant work, but I mostly work with roots). There are many different techniques I used to activate my inner Divinity and embody that seductive energy.
For example, I carve, "I am Divine" onto a candle, rub it over my body and chant, "I am Holy. I am Divine. I am Sacred. I love every part of my body." Adding a drop of my Divine Feminine Blood binds the work to me and IDK, blood is simply holy as heck. It carries the power of our ancestors and there's a reason why the most powerful ancient civilizations were reaaaaaally into blood magic.
Light the candle, stare into a mirror, and keeping raising that energy. Say it with passion, get angry at the fact that they made you forget who you are.
"I am Holy. I am Divine. I am Sacred. I love my cellulite. I love my (insert something the System told you to hate about yourself). I am a Goddess. I am perfect. I treat myself with love now and forever."
Say this over, and over, and over and...
Discover Your Seductive Archetype
If you have an attention span and have made it to this part of our post, you are either one of the admirers I've bound to me (oops) or you're actually with the shit and are already a practitioner. Or, maybe you're just now activating and awakening (hold on, this journey will be painful but so worth it).
First, I recommend reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Study marketing, branding, and psychology because seduction is about storytelling, not looks. Looks do matter, but Greene shows us how the most famous and magnetic seductors weren't necessarily physically attractive. They were highly intelligent and understood human psychology.
While reading Greene's book, try to discover which seductive archetypes apply to you and amplify them. For example, I embody the Coquette, the Siren and the Charismatic.
The Coquette archetype is hot and cold, light and dark, push and pull. She may seem a bit... wild, maybe a bit intimidating. Then she sets you off balance by being syrupy sweet. This type of game reaaaaally fucks with people's heads. Napoleon fell prey to his wife, Josephine's, Coquette tactics and couldn't resist her. Most of us, however, combine a few different seductive archetypes and I'm not fully a true heartless Coquette. Unfortunately, I do have emotions.
The Siren works with high drama and vulnerability, as embodied by Marilyn Monroe and Cleopatra. I would like to think I am skilled in the art of pageantry and putting on a good show like a Siren. The Charismatic, as embodied by Malcom X, genuinely believes in what he's saying and embodies an authentic confidence that magnetizes certain individuals. Like Moses descending down from the mountain full of Holy Light or whatever, Charismatics genuinely believe in something, walking with a Spirit that naturally draws devotees and followers to them. Their confident belief is highly seductive and magnetic to their devotees.
I believe my inner Charismatic comes across when writing my weird witchy blogs because, oddly enough, some of my most generous admirers said they were drawn to me because of my... weird witchy blogs. I must have the Moses Mountain glow about me when I write or talk about my Higher Powers.
Research the different types of seductive personas and decide which combination best matches your Creator given gifts. Simply being aware of your seductive gifts will allow you to toy with men in a more effective manner. I also benefitted from Greene's chapter on anti-seductive behavior, because I can be very anti-seductive when my mask comes down. Like, I just want to talk about my special interests and that's apparently very not seductive.
Weird, huh? Men don't want to hear me talk about what I enjoy. They want to hear about themselves.
womp womp.
The Forewarning: Seduction Magic is Dangerous
The other day, a man who hangs around my neighborhood and always tries to talk to me/harasses me (as I ignore him) decided it would be a fantastic idea to continue his harassment by following me (stalking me) as I walked by him.
Looking back down the block, his creepy fedora wearing ass was lurking, following me after I'd walked for quite some time down twisting, turning, random side streets. At a stop light, he creeped up behind me and said, "Hey love, I like your tattoos!" as I continued to ignore him.
Some men see a woman, an inferior being, ignoring them as a huge ego hit so they decide to chase, to harm, to get violent. Many women are killed for simply ignoring a man in this way and it's extremely dangerous to confront such a man.
Personally, I love it when a bitch tries me because some of us were born to be tried and tested. If I have to go down as a folk hero for murdering a man who gets violent with me, so be it. So I said to myself, let's play a little game.
I purposely went down a secret side street I know of in order to get him alone.
Looking back, sure enough, his little fedora was creeping along behind me. This deserted side street was right next to a police substation with cameras everywhere. Stepping off in the cut, I was outside of his field of view and as I saw him approaching, I lunged out and screamed, "What the fuck is wrong with you?????? Why do you think it's ok for you to terrorize women?????"
Suffice to say, I scared the shit out of him, hurt his fee fees, damaged his ego and he couldn't handle an inferior being (who is supposed to exist only for his consumption/entertainment) being the aggressor. Nay, nay, some males don't enjoy having the tables turned on them so it was deliciously fun to watch him freak the fuck out and experience consequences for his violence. Yes, stalking and harassment are forms of violence and I'm done being nice about it.
As predicted, he went from wanting to fuck/consume/own my body/energy to experiencing an ego Death. An embarrassed boy is a potentially violent, dangerous boy.
"You bitch! I'm not following you! Crazy bitch!" he screamed.
"Yes, I'm a huge, utterly insane bitch and you're a pussy ass bitch who likes to intimidate and harm vulnerable women!" I screamed back, as two cops milled out of the substation after hearing the hubbub.
The cops could have arrested both of us for disturbing the peace or some shit, but NYC cops are not about that life. They want to work less, not more. I planned this little event out, knowing that I'd be safer if it played out on camera.
As with everything in life, we cannot have our cake and eat it too. Ever since I began practicing seduction work, I have attracted more weirdos like the fedora stalker... but not many. As a sick, utterly sociopathic fuck, I enjoy terrorizing predatory people. I do extreme strength training and can easily lift and carry a big, bodybuilding dude so I'm not afraid to fight, staying strapped at all times. I'm also ready to die at any moment. Like, I have Final Girl energy and will rip any predator's throat out without thinking twice about it.
Tee hee.
Please be aware that you must practice protection work if you're going to practice seduction work. You will begin to raise your natural seductive energies and will attract more people, most of whom you will want in your circle, but a few stalkers may also emerge. (Leave a comment on my Bluesky or email me if you'd like me to write a blog on protection magic for s*x workers.)
Bam! Now Your a Magical, Seductive Bitch/Queen/Goddess
You've done some shadow work, self love work, and your protections workings are worked. Now it's time to raise your seductive powers with a spell or two!
As a plant workers, I specialize in concocting a variety of Seduction oils and you can easily do the same. Our tools are more powerful when we create them using our own energies, so I created a few different attraction oils like "Return to me, Bitch!" oil, Seductive Communication oil, and plain old Attraction oil. You can add a drop of oil to your outfits and props when shooting photos and video. Bam, now your photos will magnetically, magically attract admirers to you.
Speak it into existence and raise the energies you require by applying your oils while saying, "I am magnetically attractive. Kind, generous men are magically attracted to me. They can't stop thinking about me. They will do anything to be with me."
Of course, we can anoint ourselves with our magical oils before seeing an admirer. I make a cross on my throat with my Seductive Communication oil before writing a blog or seeing an admirer because seductive communication = prosperity.
Put a drop of an Attraction oil into a tealight while spending time with a special lover and watch as he becomes a cherished regular.
Here's a simple seduction spell:
Work with Santa Muerte's red love/seduction/domination aspect, La Roja, or any seductive energy like Peitho (the Greek Goddess of persuasion and seduction). Becoming a devotee of Santisima is not a light undertaking and I describe how to do this in a prior blog. Working with other Higher Powers, like love Goddesses, is easy.
Simply invoke them after cleansing yourself, your tools and your space.
"Peitho, I invoke you. Enter my soul and guide me as I embody the Divine Feminine Erotic Goddess of Persuasion and Seduction. Kind, generous, respectful men are now and forever magnetically attracted to me. They know that access to Me is priceless and will do anything to be near Me. Thoughts of my soft skin, luscious red locks, and undulating curves mysteriously float through their minds at all times. They are now and forever magically, oddly, magnetically attracted to me. They cannot stop thinking about me. They are mine, now and forever. Muah hahahaha!"
Candle magic is accessible to most folks so I won't try to explain more in-depth attraction workings like lodestone spells. Get a red taper or chime candle, bind your intention to it by carving, "I am seductive" three times, add a drop of Seduction Oil, roll in a mixture of three plants. To seduce is to dominate, so I love working with licorice root (controls the nervous system), damiana, and something sweet/spicy like cinnamon, adding a dash of prosperity energies as well.
Write down your intention: "By the Power of Peitho, I am now and forever the Divine Feminine Erotic Goddess. Kind, generous, respectful men are magnetically attracted to me."
Put this petition under your candle, add oils and blood to said petition, and save it on one of your altars or sacred spaces. Saving candle wax is also very effective because why would we throw away all that good seductive energy? Or, you can write this petition on a $100 (or $1) bill and place it under your statue or altar box to amplify the prosperity you will attract from your seduction work.
Sing, mediate, chant, speak your intentions into the candle flame.
Dance.
Activate and...
Awaken.
For those interested in the most powerful, misunderstood and maligned La Santa Muerte, here's my blog explaining why she's the patron saint of s*x workers, the queer community and those who are told we're not good enough.
I didn't genuinely find success/healing until I found her.
Gracias, madrina, por acabar con todos mis enemigos.
Gracias, madrina, por eliminar todos los obstáculos que se interponen en mi prosperidad, mi sanación y mi felicidad.
Seguiré difundiendo tu nombre por todo el mundo mientras tú sigues maldiciendo a quienes intentan hacerme daño.
Amén.
So shall it be.
Because I fucking said so.
Seduction Magic Playlist
Music, the element of air, raises energy in a very powerful way so I usually have music blasting when I'm working with the energy of seduction. Here are some songs that I find to be effective when working with seduction energies.
Inner Divinity, seduction, and prosperity magic are intertwined, so these songs reflect those energies.
Best give me your loyalty
Cause I'm taking the world you see
They'll be calling me, calling me
They'll be calling me Royalty
Ugh she's so cool. I could never be as cool and KenTheMan.
This my fav seduction magic song. lol. It works. I worked with my "Return to me, Bitch!" oil while blasting this on repeat and two admirers who hadn't seen me in a while booked. muah hahahahahaha...
Oooooooooooo now he acting like he need me.
OooooooooooooooooooOOO now he acting like he need me.
Ooooo so you wanna talk about power
Let me show you Power
I eat boys like you for breakfast
One by one hung on my necklace
They'll always be mine
It makes me feel alive
Never said it's right
But I'm gonna keep doing it
Esta conexión que tenemos es fuerte.
Spanish is the sexiest language. Ayyy
This song is perfect for almost any energetic endeavor. Vibezzzzzz.
Bring the lion out, Queen.
